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Raymond Jesse Spencer, Jr.

April 16, 1955 ~ December 20, 2021 (age 66)


Born on April 16, 1955, Raymond Jesse Spencer, Jr., “Jesse” as he was known by all, lost his heroic, yearlong battle with cancer on Monday, December 20, 2021 at the age of 66.  He was the youngest child and only son of the late Raymond Jesse Spencer, Sr. and Anastasia (Eagle) Spencer.

Jesse was the owner of Bud’s Plumbing & Heating, taking over the business after the death of his father.  He serviced hundreds of customers throughout Middlesex County.  Jesse had simple tastes and lived a simple life.  When he wasn’t working, he vacationed at his camp in Milo, Maine or he could be found chopping firewood on the coldest winter days or weeding the garden in the highest heat on a summer day.  Jesse enjoyed spending time with friends at Bieler boys, having prime rib at the Brookside on Thursday nights, and listening to conservative talk shows on the radio or TV.

Jesse is survived by his daughters, Shannon Cooper and Melissa Spencer; his sister, Madeline Fazzino; nephew, Chris Fazzino; niece, Sarah Damato; granddaughter, Cheyenne Burkle and grandson, Thunder Spencer.

Along with his parents, Jesse was predeceased by his wife, Thelma (Jansky) Spencer and his sister, Ellen Spencer.

Family and friends may call on Tuesday, December 28th from 4:00 to 7:00 pm at the Doolittle Funeral Home, 14 Old Church Street, Middletown.  Services will be private.  In lieu of flowers, donations in Jesse’s memory may be made to Tunnels To Towers Foundation, 2361 Hylan Boulevard, Staten Island, NY 10306.  To share memories or send condolences to the family, please visit www.doolittlefuneralservice.com.



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December 28, 2021

4:00 PM to 7:00 PM
Doolittle Funeral Home
14 Old Church Street
Middletown, CT 06457

Private Service

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